Thursday, 29 March 2012
Blog 5: Getting lost
On last Sunday, I went there alone to meet her at the gate of the park, because we lived far away from each other. Before leaving, I had googled how to get there and taken a photo of the map, which I wished to follow if I got lost unfortunately. Actually, I really got lost. I took No.30 bus and got off at the wrong bus stop. I found myself in a rural place where only several cars were passing by on the highway and there were no passers-by. I was so worried but kept walking in the right direction I felt.
On my right, there was a highway and on my left, there were high barriers to screen out the goods imported. The map could not help at all. After a long distance, I noticed there were three people cutting grasses, which gave me a hope. I ran towards them and asked for help. They were all Indians and quite friendly. However, I could only understand the words "go down" and "turn left". I thanked them and continue my steps.
Due to tiredness and no hope, at last I gave up. At the same time, a taxi was coming to me. Therefore, I waved to the driver right away. (There were few taxis, so if I missed the one, probably I had to wait for another for a long time.) I said Jurong Birdpark to the driver and tried to wear the belt. The diver replied, "What? Jurong Birdpark? It is just over there. Very close." I looked at the direction he pointed. I thought he probably wanted me to get out and walked there by myself, but to my surprise, he said, "Don't worry. I will send you there." I felt grateful to him and kept thanking him. In no more than one minute, we arrived. And after making sure I was walked to the right direction towards the gate, he drove away.
It took me one and a half hours to get to the park, tired and hot. However, the help I got from those people made me feel happy the whole day, especially the taxi driver. I have never met a kind man like him before. When I told my sister the experience, she was also surprised and that made her love Singapore more. Perhaps this is why I enjoy Singapore so much. I’d like to deliver this kindness.
Tuesday, 27 March 2012
Blog 5: We need enough sleep
Blog5: A new way of thinking
How can we cure melancholia? Many answers respond to this question, including creating potent medicine, visiting psychotherapist regularly. However, not many of us think about it in the other side: how can we stay happy and become happier? I did not find how powerful thinking in this way is until I watched the lecture series
This kind of conversion seems like carrying coals to Newcastle at first sight but it did work for me. I used to be some kind of prone to be depressed. I used to tell myself, I should not be depressed anymore and I started to take actions to solve the problem. While I was determined, I found it uncomfortable because whenever I thought about dealing with it, the first perception that surged in my mind was DEPRESSION, followed by tears, pains, pressure, agony and the like. So it seemed like I took measures because there was something wrong with me, which left me less desirable to continue. However, in the lecture, I learned that I should think of being happy instead of not being depressed. Hence, I said to myself, I did so because I want to be happier. Amazingly, I became willing to improve myself, making me happier, which in turn motivated me move further. No one believes I was once easy to be depressed because now I can speak to the public confidently with spontaneous smiles, do assignments with full passion and lead a group of people well. It really makes a difference though I was shaky whether it would work.
Besides its application in psychology, what is behind this theory, thinking in positive side, tells me much more. Thinking in positive side is pivotal because of, in my opinion, two reasons. Primarily, it creates new ways to promote betterment. For instance, scientists once did a lot to figure out how to cure certain cancers. What is different now is that they spare much of concentration to how to keep healthy so that people can stay away from cancers. Another relevant point worth mentioning is that, as indicated in my own experience, it makes individuals more willing to improve. As an illustration, in China a decade ago, central government proposed a campaign named “wipe off poverty together” but it turned out that many local officers followed the instructions for the simple reason that their superiors ordered them to do so. Such is human nature that a great many people do not want to admit weakness and become defensive when they have to expose it. Later, the government carried out another plan “become wealthy in union” whose essential purpose and content are almost the same as the former plan. However, it was warmly welcomed all over the country although what they were supposed to did not change. Therefore, not only this way of thinking applies in my life, it can be put to use in many other areas as well, from health care to economics to national policies.
Thanks to this idea, I’ve opened my eyes to a new world of thinking from another dimension. Next time when others ask me how to conquer melancholia, I will say, ok, let me tell you how to stay happy and become happier.
Blog 5 Titanic 3D Movie
Monday, 26 March 2012
Blog 5 The Give Programme
I remember I was very nervous at the beginning of the first class, plus it was hot in the classroom, thus my sweat wet out my shirt. By the way, we are required to dress formally, no shorts or sneakers or T-shirt is allowed. But I think I concealed my nerverousness very well by making some gestures and telling some stories about mysself. Gradually everything went on well and smoothly as expected, and I could say that I even enjoyed my time teaching them afterwards.
I found that there are many differences between the education in China and Singapore. In China, we have more rules and we are more "quite" ; however, in Singapore,the children are really outgoing and willing to express their ideas and opinions. But maybe it is because the capacity of class in Singapore is much smaller than in China, so that teacher can place more concentration on each student.
Another phenomenon I found interesting is that student speak both English and Chinese, and the blend of these two languages sometimes makes me feel that they are Chinese actually which narrow the distance between me and them.
I like those children very much, they really leave me a very deep and good impression!
Blog5 : Outlook
I realized how wonderful I can make my campus life be when attending NUS open house.
Though the two’s open house didn’t give me much details about the school, it gave me a blueprint of the campus life. Compared to bridging course, life will be much more fast-paced. We will have more things to study, more work and project to do and more activities to participate in. In the open house I got to know some things about NUS such as USP, SEP, NOC (Unfortunately we can’t participate in this program), UROP, double degree, double major, minor etc. Maybe my campus life will be surrounded by those programs, lectures, experiments, various activities etc. It is better than the life now though life now is more relaxing and comfortable. But I prefer life with challenges and adventures. Maybe I’ll find more about myself after matriculating into NUS and life will be more wonderful then. And I also came to know more about the majors. After talking with some seniors and professors, I am not so puzzled as before.
For me the most important thing during this program is that I got to know my campus life could be wonderful in many ways and I have to work enough hard to achieve it.
So many decisions waiting us to make
Blog 5: Science or Engineering
The reasons are obvious. First, not everyone has a passion for computer. Some of SM3 students do not choose computer science because they are afraid of C programming, not to mention C++ or Java. A large amount of student hate computer science because they do not like to sit in front of computers all day to design crazy programming which is filled with countless letters and numbers. What`s worse. Sometimes the programmers have to spend a whole to look for a error which makes the program not work. As for me, I like programming but I do not like work with computers in rest of my life, because computer radiate bad ray which may cause health problem or make me look old.
As a result, I prefer science or engineering, but which of them is better? There are a lot of lectures for SM students about majors. However, the more they say, the harder we choose. After a long time of delving into majors, I think there are both advantages and disadvantages in science and engineering.
Science is a kind of basic major. In science, what we can learn is mostly theoretical things. It aims at molding scientists who have critical thinking and solid theoretical foundations. The biggest advantage of science is that the module in science is more flexible and we can have the scheme which is most suitable for us. Moreover, some seniors told us that if you studied in science, you would have a relaxing university life and you can use spare time to participate in activities to gain CCAs to remain in halls. The disadvantages are also evident. Because the knowledge we gain is too theoretical, it is hard to find a job.
Engineering is more practical compared to science. It is never a problem for engineering students to find a job, especially for the students who are in the hot majors. It is because there is a big demand of engineers and the graduates are not enough to meet the needs of big companies. Furthermore, engineers do not have to be an engineer forever; they can choose other jobs since they have clever brains, profound knowledge and practical skills. As some researches show, the graduates in engineering can be bankers, businessmen and so on. For example, the Chairman in China was once a student in engineering in Tsinghua University. Nevertheless, there are a lot of talented students in engineering. Once we choose engineering, we have to compete with so many strong rivals.
Above contents are just some suggestions. Now the deadline of choosing majors is coming. I hope everyone can choose suitable major.
Blog 5: Faith
It is 5 pm, and I woke up from my nap after hearing Xuezhi’s voice. He guessed I might forget the invitation from our mentor in hostel and intended to remind me of it. Indeed, I had totally forgotten it. All I had known about the invitation was that borders on this level were invited to have a dinner with our mentor, Han Yi. And she would wait for us at Clementi MRT station at 5:30 that day. Maybe I didn’t take it very serious so I forgot and slept late…
Time was limited. Although I tried my best to be punctual, I was still late for 6 minutes. When reached there, I saw almost all our “level mates” and the mentor as well as several adults I didn’t know. After some greetings, I realised they are all friends because they are all Nazarene. Then we were all taken to a villa of one of the adults.
There were more things besides a dinner. We started with a lesson about how to make our own food, a kind of roll. Then we had the chicken soup and chatted with each other. We laughed a lot and learnt a lot. We were enjoying the free party.
After the dinner, the house owner made the aim for this party clear: they were glad for our coming as overseas students and they were willing to help us to adapt the new environment, because some of them had also experienced the same experience as we had and had been helped overseas when they were young.
I thought it was a kind of faith. It was not the faith to Jesus, but a faith to help someone who needs the help, just like them in old days.
Later, we students performed some programs to show our gratitude. Finally it ended with a song Friends. Then we separated with reluctance.
The faith will be inherited.
Blog 5: Reflections of "There are more dogs than people"
Blog 5: A Distasteful Animation
Blog 5: Those things about entropy
"It's a very strange thing," after a physics class about entropy, I was talking with my physics teacher who was smiling and looking at me ."It's a very strange thing," I continued," about the significance of creatures in the aspect of physics if I consider entropy to this significance, and the result of the cosmos is also very strange." I asked some questions about this significance and this result, but my teacher said he did not know the answer exactly and I could think by myself. Therefore, I started thinking. This was the first time when I encountered the concept of entropy.
My problems
In the second law of thermodynamics, entropy is a basic quantity which quantifys randomness of a closed system. Bigger a system's entropy is, more random this system is, and vice versa. More importantly, in a closed system, the entropy will be absolutely bigger and bigger if there is no outside impact on this system. Immediately, in my mind, problems come out.
The first problem is that the creature of life seems to be a exception to entropy. It is universally acknowledged that the body of a creature is orderly rather than oforder. Superficially the basic aim of a creature is to maintain hers/his/its order and live longer as a kind of creature. However, it seems that the creature of life is meaningless to our universe.
The second problem is that if the whole universe is considered as a closed system(as far as I know, our universe should be a closed system) , the entropy will be bigger and bigger which somehow means that our universe will inflate forever and die in peace and darkness, whereas physics teacher said our universe is inflating for a time and then it will deflate to a point again. Obviously, two conclusions are contradictory.
My analysis
To answer my question raised by myself, I thought greatly and searched oceans of information and asked my classmates(my class was a tracked class for bright students, so most of my classmates are very intelligent) for help. Subsequently, I got my answers.
For the first problem, my conclusion was that actually we, the creature of life, contribute much to the entropy increasing of our universe. To some extent, the vitally important feature of creatures is that they will spare no effort to maintain their low entropy and a creature is not a closed system. But what is creatures’ significance? Like what Hegel said:” That’s reasonable”, we, lives, should have significance. One day when I encountered biocatalyst, an idea burst out that creatures, actually, are the catalyst of the increasing of entropy. The universe is like a river, everything is flowing down to the lower altitude, but there is a boat which is trying to maintain itself so it push the water or other things backward, and the result is that the flowing of water or other things is speeded up. We, creatures which is most unique considered by ourselves, become a catalyst of universe’s process of termination which is related to the second problem.
For the second problem, I found an intersting thing: Black Hole which is the key of my analysis. It is said that the black hole’s entropy is extremely high and anything will deflate into black holes, so logically I thought two conclutions, I mentioned above, was not contradictory. Besides, I need learn more about it.
Sunday, 25 March 2012
Blog 5 My Give Programme
Blog 5 The exciting journey during recess
At 9 o’clock in the morning, we were picked up by Mr.Ng and he took us to an Indian restaurant where for the first time I had a taste of the typical Roti Prata with fish curry and a special kind of drink called Teh Tarik which was a kind of milk tea made in particular procedure. On the way, Mr.Ng told us a lot more about Singapore and at the parking lot, I learned how to use the coupon to pay for parking fees which from my perspective, is a way that requires people’s high self-consciousness.
After that, we went to Bukit Timah Nature Reserve with the high expectation to have a look at monkeys. Fortunately, we also encountered two lizards before coming across several little monkeys who were taking an easy walk along the road and the courtyard walls. Furthermore, although the highest mountain in Singapore is not as difficult to climb as the mountains in China, we also took some effort to climb to the summit. To be honest, the scenery along the road was so wonderful that we couldn’t stop taking photos all the way.
However, these were just the beginning of the greatest excitement. When we were having fun in another park nearby, we suddenly saw a thin but long snake crawling on the road. It had bright red stripes from which we conjectured that it might be poisonous.
It was already 12 o’clock when we finished the exciting journey. Mr.Ng took us to his house where we had a great delicacy. We were surprised to find that besides reading newspaper, Mr.Ng was also fond of listening to classic music. The most impressive thing on me was that during the whole day, Mr.Ng was speaking Chinese, which made all of us much more relaxed and I was moved by his being so caring for us.
Moreover, this Tuesday was also special since our small group spent almost the whole afternoon talking about our research topic. We analyzed the advantages and disadvantages for each topic elaborately before making a final decision. During the long discussion, I learned more about how to explain my own idea clearly as well as how to achieve a thorough comprehension of others’ opinions. Although it was only the beginning of our research program, I had a deeper understanding of the meaning of cooperation, which was to learn more from each other and in the meantime to strain every nerve towards the same goal.
At the beginning of phase 2, I would like to thank all my tutors as well as classmates for your help during the past few months. I am looking forward to the following learning journey. No matter how stressful the future will be, I just want to keep moving with all of you.
Monday, 12 March 2012
To be much closer to the nature
Saturday, 10 March 2012
Blog4: An inspiring SMS
We gave our oral presentation on Wednesday morning. To be honest, I had practiced many times before this. Thus I was quite confident when I was giving my presentation. Through the inspiring SMS from Yan Shi, I knew that my efforts did pay off.
I am so grateful to the SMS, because it not only praised my work but also gave me more confidence to take up challenges in the future. On the one hand, everyone need encouragement and help to make himself more confident and braver. On the other hand, we are not willing to show gratification to others in many cases. But once you do it, the recipient will thank you a lot. Now we are all taking the intensive English class, and almost everyone will encounter some difficuties in this process. We should never grudge giving encouragement. That you give praise to others means that you give yourself courage.
Next time when you appreciate the outstanding performance of someone, just show your feelings to him.
Blog 4:About the weather in Singapore
Thursday, 8 March 2012
Blog 4:When we are young
As for me, I merely have been to Sentosa, Botanic Garden and some shopping malls.
I still remember when I was interviewed in Harbin Institute of Technology, the professor from NUS asked me whether I am energetic. And I replied yes because I used to join many activities and enjoy every second to go out and do something. However, nowadays, I seldom go out but almost spend my weekends in the dormitory because I feel tired after a week’s courses.
Today, I opened a book my sister gave me, which I had left at home. Some words caught my attention, which were written by my friend in HIT. He said that the reason why he gave me this book as a gift before my leaving is that he wished I could read books or traveled outside so that either my heart or my body would be on the way. I felt sorry to fail to achieve this goal.
I just realize that I waste so much time that I could have spent in enjoying the world outside. When we are young, what we should do is go out to see the world to find what diversity of ethnic people are doing, where colorful scenery are shining and how distinct culture are mixing. Thus, when we are no longer young, we can say we have already go through the whole world and there is no pity.
On Wednesday, we successfully gave our first oral presentation in class, which may be meaningful and impressive to us. I think my presentation may be not good, but I did make my efforts to complete it. Before I addressed the speech, I could not remind anything about my speech although I managed to recite it fluently yesterday. Then when I was on the stage, I felt nervous and stressed because it was my first official speech in class although there were many oral reports that I had made before. During my speech, I made all my efforts to smooth the presentation so that I left some information which was not relevant to the subject closely. After the speech, because I found that my classmates were not active to ask some questions to others and I regarded my topic-the oppression against women and girls as the boring and monotonous one, I felt a little shameful and sorry to ask for some questions and I got back to the seats quickly and embarrassedly. In conclusion, I will depict my first presentation as a failure and there is a lot of progress that I can make in the next presentation.
Blog4: Walk to the Coast
Wednesday, 7 March 2012
Blog 4 :Chinese Pop Singers
Blog 4: Epiphany
Today,that “you” is me and the “something” is my oral presentation. To be honest, I was a little afraid of doing oral reports or presentations or any other such kind of jobs, because of my poor oral English. I had been worrying about today’s oral presentation from last Sunday, the day I began to preparefor it. From then on, every day I felt uncomfortable and always thought about what if I failed to present it well. I even wished today wouldn’t come. However, I couldn’t stop the time.
I am No.18, the last one to present. Even though the whole morning was for us to do the presentations, since everyone had question time, there was only 20 minutes left when Mengdan (No.16) came to the stage. How to describe my feelings then? I don’t know. Maybe I felicitated that probably I wouldn’t show up? But when Mengdan finished and teacher said “one more last, and next week to finish all”, I was shocked. The time indeed seemed not abundant but it still had the possibility to do two, I thought. Instantly, I realized that this thought had given me away already: I was not afraid any more, on the contrary, I looked forward it somehow.
It’s the will of heaven? Maybe I can prepare for my oral presentation better since I still have one week. As I stated at the beginning, I’m eager for its coming now. So why not to choose to prepare it with good mood at the very beginning?
Yeah, I will.
Blog 4 : Apple influence
Tuesday, 6 March 2012
Blog 4:The Experience Of Taking Part In The 5km Runing Race
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Monday, 5 March 2012
Blog 4 5K Fun Run
Blog 4: Three Kingdoms Killers
The game is a little difficult. Don`t worry too much. After reading my blog, you can know the basic rule of the game. You can begin your amazing tour of Three kingdoms killers online.
First of all, everyone will get 3 cards to choose from. Each card represents a person in three kingdoms. Different persons have different skills. (Don`t care about the skills now. For beginners, every person is the same.) Next you will get a card representing your blood and 5 cards that you can use in the process of the game. (Generally, in your turn, you will get 2 more cards to use) Then you use cards to separate you into 3 groups. The king and the good ministers are in one group. The bad ministers are in one group. The hidden traitor don`t have friends, he must depend on his wisdom.
Now, the game begins. Only one group can win. Therefore, they should use their cards to kill the people in other groups. You only know which group you are in, so you should guess who is your ally and who is your enemy. It is very fun, isn`t it. If you are the hidden traitor, you are unlucky. First, you should help the king kill the bad ministers, and then you should help the rest bad ministers kill the good ministers and the king. Only when you kill everyone can you win. What a tough job.
Do not wait. Join us to experience a different magical game!
Blog 3: Life(a novel)
This is the summary of the novel. Jialin is an aspiring and outstanding man. He had his own faults, but the biggest problem causing his failure was the social problems. There was no adequate resources and opportunities in his time. Many youth like Jialin could not achieve their dream. Nowadays situations have changed a lot and we should treasure present happiness. Tell youself, "Never lose heart. Never give up. Try your best to pursue what you want."
Blog 4:Do not abuse our rights
We all know that The Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR) was adopted by the United Nations General Assembly on 10th December 1948. Since that, people have attached great importance to guaranteeing human rights and worked hard to dispel the violation of human rights. However, we sometimes disregard the other side, the abuse of human rights.
Rights should be used in the right way and with qualifications. We cannot live alone, so that we should care about others when we want to satisfy ourselves. For example, we have the right to sing songs freely but we are not supposed to sing songs extremely loudly when everybody else is sleeping, which is unacceptable legally, emotionally, morally and traditionally.
In addition, punishment should be inflicted on who use rights in a wrong way. I recently heard news that a Chinese scholar in NUS had said something improper about Singaporeans in renren.com which annoyed many people. He was asked to make formal apologise and attend a hearing held by NUS about what the punishment should be. This is not the first time that I heard something like this. Hence, educating people not to abuse their rights is as important as helping them fight against their rights.
In conclusion, we all need to pay attention to the way we exploit our rights and use them for the benefit of ourselves as well as others.
Some reflections of playing football
Last Friday, fortunately, my friends invited me to join them in a friendly football match towards local students. But this time, my job was to defend. In fact, I seldom defend, but I would do my best. During the match, although I tried my best, rivals still gained three scores, which made me feel frustrated at that time.
After the match, I came up with some reflections from football. One is that I realised that being a defender is as difficult as being a striker and, defenders are very important for a team. Before the match, I, like most of others, always appreciated the stikers more and paid little attention on defenders. We prefered to give a lot of applause and complishments to strikers when they gain scores, but always forgot that defenders also have their own contributions. So this experience made me understand more about defenders and their functions. And next time, I will be happy to be a defender.
Sunday, 4 March 2012
Blog 4 Whether it is necessary to use monitors?
In the first place, to view it at an individual level, it seems that no matter where and when the monitor is used to keep track of a person is a kind of invasion of privacy. To put it differently, each and every one of us is an entire world, a world in which we have the right to do whatever we want without others’ interference. Just as Shuzhi has put forward, it has nothing to do with the employer if we want to scratch the back to make it more comfortable at work, but we will be absolutely stopped to make such an embarrassing little thing when under observation which is likely to decrease efficiency instead. Hence, there is no doubt that it is unnecessary to have monitors to watch us when we are doing some “personal things”.
However, here comes the critical problem: what is the accurate definition of “personal things”? Seen from a social angle, every thing that an individual does is closely related to the whole society, even when we are in a public washroom, what we do will undoubtedly affect some other people. Nevertheless, why we usually don’t have monitors in washrooms? To some extent, it is because the society tends to pay as much attention as possible to value individual privacy and try to solve the problem in a more acceptable way, which means to put up slogans and to use some public-service advertisements and some other ways to improve people’s quality. Although it still may not work for everyone, at least it is effective for most people.
As far as I am concerned, using monitors is not a shortcut for high efficiency, it is the policy we put forward when there is no better way to protect the rights and interests for most people. For companies, I think it will be more reasonable to guarantee the efficiency by giving each employee appropriate task within fixed time instead of tracing the working process. As for the situations where it is hard to keep a balance, such as in the supermarkets, it seems that we have no choice but to use the monitors to achieve relative equality for most people. What’s more, it is significant to inform people when they are under observation, since that the right to know is a basic right for all of us.
To conclude, using monitors is a means to protect more people's rights and interests when there is no better ways to make it.
Blog 4 My Roommate
Blog 4:My Experience of Battling the Ants in my Dormitory!
The first time I came into my dormitory, I lay in my new and soft bed while my skin of my arm itched. It was ants in my bed! I still remember that I spent much cleaning my bed. Hopefully, after a few days, this "cute" ants never came back.
To my surprise, 1 months later, they came back. After analyzing the matter, my intelligent roommate found that it was after we ate up the Vinegar Garlic which I bought from my hometown when ants appeared again. So he went out to buy the Vinegar Garlic, but unluckily no store in Singapore sells the commodity, so he just bought garlic. However, it had been proved that the garlic did not work. Afterwards, we met the female senior who once lived in our room. She told us that there was a large ant nest near our room and she had already spared no afford to kill all the ants but never succeeded. Then we tried,too. Obviously, we also failed.
Now, we are not bothering to battue the countless ants. "Let them go."I think. And we always amuse ourselves by pinching the ants and killing them. It is just like a game, a boring and cruel game. Maybe the best way to defend the ants is to avoid eating snacks in the bedroom, and we are trying.
Friday, 2 March 2012
Blog 3: how to choose our majors
Today, in our afternoon class, we watched a very old movie called “Chariots of Fire”. At first, I thought the movie is a documentary concerning about the war or the military. However, I am totally wrong because it is actually about some hardworking and persistent runners who go through kinds of difficulties to get the golden medal in the 8th Olympic Game. The two main characters are Eric Liddell and Harold Abrahams. Eric, a Scottish hero, is a much talented athlete with a strong belief to god. The most impressive to me is that he did not make any compromise with the royalty to attend the preliminary race on Sunday which is seemed as profaneness to him. Luckily, a polite runner initiatively exchange the event with him, thus, he can achieve his goal in the 400-meter race successfully. Likewise, Abrahams is also a gifted runner but he is not as talented as Eric. After he loses the game with Eric, he finds a very good coach to instruct him, and through a hard train, he managed to defeat his rivals in the 100-meter race, although he does not beat him in the preliminary race. In conclusion, the movie is far away from our daily lives, but is a meaningful and far reaching instruction to our mental lives.
Thursday, 1 March 2012
Blog3: Thought about Homosexuals
For teenagers, especially boys, they would like to joke on the topic of homosexuals. And if there is a person whose sexual orientation is a person who has the same gender, they won’t laugh at him at all. When I was in senior high school, one of my best friends is a lesbian. She didn’t dare to tell anyone else that her partner is also a girl. When she told me, I was surely surprised. However, when I thought of it completely, I believed she must have considered this different thing thoroughly, so I smiled to her and said that it was OK.
In China, we all know that homosexuals won’t have a good reputation. Because of the stereotype that a man who found his own family and has a child is filial, most of them have no bravery to be a homosexual for fear of being laughed at. Eventually, they will also get married with a woman, but they don’t care about their wives at all. Therefore the phenomenon that wives of homosexual don’t live a happy life is very common in China.
Things are different in western countries. For example, homosexuals are allowed to get married in USA and their right is protected well. Because of this, those in China choose to immigrant to USA to get married. From this distinction, I think Asian countries must pay more attention to them and take measures to protect them from being hurt. There is no mistake for them to choose the partners they love.
In conclusion, we new generation should be open-minded enough to let the mindset away. We should treat homosexual in the same way we get along with ordinary people. As long as they think they live a happy life, we ought not to have prejudice on them or force them to change their mind.