Saturday, 14 April 2012
Blog7.:Reflections of Bejing Love Story
I watched this TV series with my roommates one month ago. The story is mainly about the complex relationships between a group of people in Beijing. The first male protagonist chooses the money and the career then breaks up with his girlfriend. While the second protagonist gives up all he possesses to pursue that woman consistently and finally finds his true love with that woman.
Today, my topic is not about true love. What I want to emphasis is that love needs to be built on the basis of material. Although "True Love" is always being praised, love should also be based on the material. Love is something about spiritual level which you can never eat as bread.Lacking material basis is one of the major reason why people divorce. Stress builds up when people don't have money but have bills to pay. Then quarrels happen as a result of upsets and irritableness. If this continues over a long period of time, spouses will feel resentful towards each other. They will struggle at most of their time spent together, which might lead to divorce.
Therefore, from my perspective, people should work hard to improve their financial status.(By the way, it is merely my opinion). Best wishes.
Reality is as important, in my mind, as dreams. Sometimes we concentrate either too much on reality or dreams. However, only by being practicle and holding on to our dreams can we lead a meaningful life.
ReplyDeleteIt is true one cannot live on fresh air and sunshine alone. However, focusing too much on the material things in life would take away all the joys of living a simple life. We need 'balance'.
ReplyDeleteIndeed,a couple need material to keep their life.Thus,they should be realistic.Just as Ms.Lim said,we need 'balance'.
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